Do you feel like you're not getting enough dates and don't know why? Well, it's worth considering whether you're the problem. We often blame external factors for our love lives not going the way we want them to, but sometimes our own unconscious behavior gets in the way. Here are six ways to put the brakes on your curvy dating life without even realizing it.
You are not paying attention to your personal information
If you've been online for a while and aren't getting much interest, it's time to change your profile. The most important thing you can do is add new photos, but small details like changing the age range of the person you're looking for can also help. An old, neglected image doesn't do you any good.
It takes you a long time to respond to messages
Although you don't need to reply right away, if it takes too long to get in touch, a potential curvy date will think you're not serious about the chubby hookup date and will continue to date. Take time to respond to all your messages at least once a day.
You're so cool
Escape-and-ask rarely works, and if you're chatting on curvy dating apps before you've met in a curvy woman, it's definitely going to bore you! Enthusiasm is attractive, so show excitement about meeting plus size people and getting to know them.
You always find excuses to refuse others
If you go through all your potential plus size dates' profiles and look for reasons not to go out with them, you can't say there aren't good people. If you look for good things and give everyone a chance, you are more likely to meet someone.
You must not use
If you are so busy at work that you barely have time to go to the dentist, let alone a curvy date, you may find it difficult to meet someone. Consider whether this is a good time to date and whether you need to make changes to make time for the date.
You're not putting the date first
The point up here points to this point. If you don't take the time to give your BBW date the attention it deserves, you'll find it hard to meet anyone. If you are really serious about your BBW dating life and put it first, you will soon have some great dates.